Pregnancy & Sexuality

Sexuality during pregnancy is still a taboo subject, many couples feel lost face sometimes alarmist ideas, and some will see the frequency of intercourse decline.

Is it safe to have sex during pregnancy?

No, quite the contrary! Except if there are cons-indications made by the doctor, sex pose no risk to mother and baby. The ideas often prove false!

Thus it is impossible to hurt or hurting your baby well protected inside the uterus as it is surrounded by amniotic fluid and protected by the cervix, which itself is closed by a mucus plug.

With this protection, your baby is not witnessed your lovemaking, as some couples may think. During the first quarter, as some parents refuse to have sex for fear of causing a miscarriage, yet there is an idea that is not valid, because miscarriages are due to chromosomal abnormalities of the embryo, and in any case of sexual activity! Finally, the contractions caused by orgasm do not interfere in any way the baby, always well protected in the uterus.

The beneficial effects of sex during pregnancy

In addition to relaxing the mother and give him a well-being that will feel the baby as the couple gets closer and preserves its harmony. Making love reassured because the mom and dad realize that, together, they are still lovers, and that parents become.

For those who still have some worries, think there are a thousand ways of making love, reports soft and smooth reassure you can be more than making love passionately.

The cons-medical indications

They are specifically made you vote for a doctor, for example in case of preterm labor, placenta previa (which covers the cervix) or even crack the amniotic sac. If your partner finds questionable losses or abnormal phenomena, do not continue the relationship before having a medical opinion. If all goes well, make love!

The desire for pregnancy

When pregnant, women experiencing physical and psychological changes, due to the upheaval in his hormones.

While some women do not see any great change in their sexuality, others will want to have sex constantly, or otherwise, will withdraw into themselves and take it the distance with Dad. Each saw his sexuality in his way, and if the mother's libido is lowered it is not a drama and it may change during pregnancy.

For dads desire can also change

Some found their beautiful women and will have even more desire to make love to them, but others may be confused by the transformation of the body of their wives, and the idea that carrying a baby.

In general, there are three phases on the evolution of the libido in the torque corresponding to the three trimesters of pregnancy. During the first trimester nausea, fatigue and unfounded fear of a miscarriage may hinder the desire of women.

In the men, many feel a drop in desire related to the new image they have of their companion, who is now a mom in the making, and some may become less pressing and wait their wives come to them.

Your wife changed

the expectant mother feel beautiful and sexy, her breasts are beautiful, her belly swells, and increased vascularity of the pelvis causing a rush of blood in the vagina so that it has a growing desire, can lead to real sexual drive and pleasure.

The skin and the clitoris is also more sensitive, some even know their first orgasm during the second quarter!

As the dad, the fact of feeling the baby move and thus be considered as a whole person, can hinder and restrain his enthusiasm.

The third quarter is more delicate

The mother has a sore back, tired legs and must adpater sexual positions because of the beautiful rounded belly. But the psychic is a very important place as the day of delivery approaches and concerns can stop as well as the desire of man to the woman even though some couples make love without any problem until the end.

What to do in case of no sex?

Each couple live their sexuality in his way. If one of them feels no desire, then one must talk about listening, reassurance and above all not guilty. After all, the body of the mother changes, the structure also changes since the couple from two to three, and thus a family, then it is very natural that they needed time to adjust.

Do not have sex during pregnancy does not mean that the couple is in check, he just needs to find its place in this new life that is being profiled!

And then there are other ways that the penetration to love: the petting, oral, kissing all over the body, love the games ... it is quite possible to have sex without penetration.

If the desire is so low as to not have any desire to have fun here too there are other ways to love: affection, long kisses, massages, and other words I love you soft whispering in his ear, will be aware that this is the natural desire is lacking, and in no love or feelings.