Like many addictions (drugs, alcohol, tobacco, gaming ...) hyperdépendance the love, put in place mechanisms which often repeat the behavior of the mother overprotective and permissive with an often absent father and experienced brutal separations repeated such as divorce, bereavement, which have often accompanied the life of the adult in the making ...
But the specificity of Anaclytisme result in the idea that the individual hyperdépendant to the other, love can not be conceived otherwise than in a state of control or passion, in which these 'passionate quests "replace those of freedom and balance. The flavor dependence is preferred to the serenity and true knowledge of the other.
The changing social
It is also important to consider the impact of social changes on the vision of the modern couple. In a world today more consumerist, so suddenly, the passion is extinguished, changes level, if the feelings are equal, people will separate more easily to get back into the whirlpool of passionate love . Some dating sites grow to the extreme addictive mechanisms encouraging us to "get better". Iin their advertising campaigns so you can read it "unnecessary to meet the first comer, if the second is for you."
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