Marriage Is a nest of happiness or a rope around his neck? For some it is the incarnation of the old dream of childhood: the white dress, love, joy, kids ... for others it is a source of fear and anxiety. Is it a fear of commitment? The unknown? Or the expression of a psychological complex? Explanations with Dr. Mouhcine Benyachou, Psychiatrist-sexologist in Casablanca.
Why some people are afraid of commitment?
If we exclude the factors enormously expensive materials for the Moroccans, especially the young, the decision to marry is not easy. There are various psychological complexes that generate a fear of marrying out of fear of failing: it is the fear of failure all the more important the man who is afraid of not satisfying his woman, and that people discover that it is not a man and therefore humiliation and it is especially negative thoughts and dysfunctional that block women and sometimes men.
Our behavior depends on our thinking and thinking.
Others think they are not made for marriage. Why?
Often these are fantasies that are not real. In first place sexological problems especially in humans as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, small penis, infertility, failure of the relationship, etc.. Most men seeking treatment for fear of getting married suffer from such problems and often they are only fantasies while in reality they are normal people. Consult a sexologist instead of suffering for a lifetime.
Dr. Mouhcine Benyachou, Psychiatrist-sexologist in Casablanca
Other factors come into contention as:
- Social phobia
- The image of parents: the problems and marital disputes affecting children bine.
- Sexual Abuse
- Depression
- The structure of personality
- The paranoid: all women are prostitutes
- Mental illness
- The hyper mania protective
- The problem of inheritance
- The disappointment in love
- Divorce
- Education repressive
- Homosexuality
- Prostitution
- Older age
The impact of divorce
Any relationship of failure engenders a sense of failure and fear of fear of being in a situation more miserable than before. For this reason, it is necessary that the girl is primarily concerned with his studies. And after she gets a profession, so it can make the right choice of husband without rushing into a relationship. In addition it is inadvisable to have children during the first two years of marriage. We can never guarantee a relationship but we can guarantee a profession because divorce is increasingly common. In the West, a couple divorced two, and it became the same case in Morocco.
How to motivate these people?
In case of psychological complex, whatever its cause, it must consult a specialist to discuss with him all the contingencies described. These are fantasies that he must drive to avoid suffering throughout life.
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