It is normal for the first time your baby is the center of the world for you and your wife. But it is vital that women become aware of the mom and dad know again husband. Your couple is the foundation of the family, and we must preserve.
When the mother is a little more detached from her baby, an exit plan from time to time to recover, asking friends or relatives to keep the little tip: dine tete-a-tete in a romantic restaurant or watch a good movie.
In regard to romantic relationships, let your wife time to recover from childbirth and as a result of episiotomy if there was one, and prefer the caress. For it to feel desirable again, tell him that you find beautiful, that you love, give him a robe or something that rekindles her femininity. Plus you will prove loving and attentive, the less time it takes your wife to feel new lover is long.